Putting the Man Back in Demand – The Bachelor vs. The Bachelorette
Posted on: January 6, 2010No comments yet
This week the season premiere of ABC’s “The Bachelor” proves once again why “Putting The Man Back In Demand” works so well and why I chose that phrase for the Dating Intel Blog’s tagline.
Stay with me here!
I’m not a big fan of TV in the first place and only follow a few shows. Last on my list would have been something as cheesy as “The Bachelor” but while I cooked my meals for the week on Monday (following strict rules laid down by my trainer over at the house of pain); I happened to catch the opening of this seasons premier.
As I listened in from the kitchen I suddenly realized how the contrived reality TV show actually proves so blatantly the case for Supply Side Dating!
The back story on this season is basically that on last season’s “Bachelorette” a Tom Cruise like stud pilot from Dallas “Jake” got shot down by the Bachelorette “Jillian.”
Now our man Jake here is what almost any woman would consider the Perfect Catch. He’s a pilot with a great career, income, status, good looks, a body most men can’t get no matter how much time they spend in the gym, and he comes across as just a really good guy looking for love.
Jillian, had her choice of a couple of dozen men and despite Jakes best attempts he was kicked to the curb just like some ordinary average Joe!
Apparently America didn’t agree with Jillian and he got so much viewer response they brought him back this season as the Bachelor!
Now, back to Monday night. Here we are ten minutes in to the first episode and he’s got 25 stunning women literally fighting over him.
What gives?
The lesson here is obvious and it’s the reason that unlike 99% of the other dating advice you will find for men, we don’t compete in bars, clubs, grocery stores, church, or any other ”Even” playing field when it comes to meeting women. If Jake can be tossed out simply because the woman knows she’s got ten other guys waiting for her without giving it a second thought, what are our chances as average men competing against the sea of competitors?
The way to turn the tables and gain back the advantage is to use “Supply Side Dating” where you either blatantly or subtly project that you are the one in demand and that you are choosing between multiple stunning attractive women!
And unlike most other dating advice, I won’t teach you to fake it till you make it. Supply Side Dating actually creates evidence that you are in demand and pursued by multiple women.
Unlike the Bachelorette where the woman gets to pick and choose, following the system I teach will have you voting women off your island that you would have felt lucky to stand next to previously!
In the end Jake, like most of my friends and probably like yourself, only wants that one special woman; but instead of settling for what we can get, we now have the choice to find a woman that is truly right for us! Just like Jake is about to do this season!
I know it sounds like a big claim, but I’m living it every day! And in case you are wondering, I’m not a pilot, don’t have six pack abs (or I wouldn’t even think of eating ground turkey all week), I don’t have those Tom Cruise looks or smile and I’m not famous!
Speaking of average Joes, a few years ago they actually recreated the same effect with the show “Average Joe” where in the end a group of amazing women fought over a very average guy!
Catch the entire freak show here: The Bachelor Season Premier
Stay Tuned, there’s more to come supply sider’s!
Scott
Divorced Guys and Middle Aged Men, Listen Up!
Posted on: January 5, 20102 comments so far (is that a lot?)
I want to stop for a second and specifically talk about men who are recently divorced or who find themselves single for the first time in their late thirties, forties or fifties.
Things have changed…
Let’s look at an average divorced man in his late thirties. If he was married at age 27 and was married for ten years that means he got married in 1999! Guess what; back then, dating online was as creepy and strange as placing a personal ad in the paper!
Only the most motivated daters flocked to the online dating sites and back then it was not something anyone would freely admit to their buddies or much less women to their girlfriends.
The Times they are a chang’in!
A lot has happened in the last 10 years and online dating is main stream!
It has become almost a pre-requisite for being single in some age groups and the twenty something’s are as comfortable hooking up online as you were using the telephone in the Good Old Days!
More good news, some of the fastest growing demographics for online daters are men and women over thirty!
Right now it’s estimated that 50% of all US singles use online dating websites while as much as 75% of singles in the UK are dating online!
Supply Side Dating is not about “Game” or Picking up Women in bars and clubs.
If you are out of your twenties, and now find yourself in your thirties and forties, single, possibly divorced and you just don’t want to feel like the “Creepy Old Guy in the Bar”, have no fear!
The thought of hitting the bars and clubs to meet women should seem a little strange to you and unfortunately the majority of “Dating Advice” experts would have you dressed up in ridiculous clothes running lines on women at bars and clubs. No thanks, I’ll pass!
Supply Side Dating will not have you rehearsing routines to run on women, hanging out in bars or clubs, or “Peacock’ing” and getting dressed up in age inappropriate clothes, cruising spots to run lines on women in grocery stores, using NLP, hypnosis, magic tricks, or any other (PUA) pick up artist technique.
Supply Side Daters go where the single girls are… Online!
In short, Supply Side Dating is not creepy, weird or unnatural and that is one of the reasons why it is so universally successful.
One of the great things about Supply Side Dating is that it works just as well for men in their thirties forties and fifties as it does for men in their twenties.
While men in their twenties may have radically different goals than men in their fifties when it comes to meeting women, Supply Side Dating will cover all the bases from finding a hook up for the night, to finding a Soul Mate for the rest of your life.
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Scott
10…9…8…7…6…5…4…3…2…1…Launch!
Posted on: January 4, 2010No comments yet
Please join me in celebrating the Official Launch of the Dating Intel Blog!

Official Dating Intel Blog Launch!
For over two years now I have been gathering and testing the most advanced and detailed strategies that help men succeed with Online Dating websites.
Now for the first time we are “Putting The Man Back In Demand” when it comes to Dating with cutting edge advice, techniques and strategies.
Stay tuned this week, I have some great new inside information for you on how eHarmony has made it slightly harder to tell when a woman has hidden her pictures by closing a loophole in their email notifications. Not to worry, Dating Intel members know exactly how to expose hidden profile pictures on eHarmony.
Also this week we will be covering the new changes over at Match.com and their new search features and how you may be coming up short on your search results as well as some new information on their greatly improved email function.
Online Dating is the best, fastest and most efficient way to meet large numbers of quality, attractive women, When Done Correctly!
It’s my mission that Dating Intel will shortly become the default destination for men to learn how to master both the art and science of Online Dating.
Here on the Dating Intel blog you can expect frequent, cutting edge techniques and strategies in the form of articles, videos and audio interviews.
Also in the works is a complete and comprehensive Supply Side Dating training course that includes everything from applying copywriting techniques to profile design that cause women to email you first, email strategies that get a response The Majority of the time, personal profile sites that will separate you from every other guy fighting for a woman’s attention and all the way to managing your dating marketing funnel with advanced custom designed software!
If you haven’t already, make sure to opt in to the “Dating Intel Insider” newsletter for instant notification of new content, exclusive undercover hacks, tricks and tools that will have your supply of dates ramped up in a matter of days.
Check back later this week when I will be revealing exactly how to expose hidden profile pictures on eHarmony and how to make sure you arnt letting Match.com choose the women you see whn doing a search!
Please leave any comments, questions, or topics you would like help with below!
Putting The Man Back in Demand,
Scott
Welcome To Dating Intel!
Posted on: January 1, 20104 comments so far (is that a lot?)
I’m putting the finishing touches on the blog and I will start posting some great online dating tips for men ASAP. In my most recent test I was able to get 90 emails from women who initiated contact with me first, without sending so much as one email.
Unlike most men’s experience with dating online, I have figured this thing out and can’t wait to share it all with you!
For now, subscribe to my newsletter to the right and I will keep you updated!
I look forward to meeting you!
Sincerely,
Scott



